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How would you address the issue of so-called “Radical Islam”?

In A Thought on February 5, 2010 at 1:28 am

I was just reading John Burns Q. and A. on Islamic Radicalization on NYT and couldn’t help but wonder about the topic.

I think this is a very real issue, not just because the media is giving it all the attention it is, but because as Muslims we should be concerned with what is causing and driving this behavior in people.

Killing innocent people isn’t something Islam teaches and yet people try to twist the religion and give their own interpretations. The problem is that some Muslims can’t distinguish between the need for our community to deal with the issue, and the fact that some are making it about attacking Islam as a religion. To their credit there are those that blame violence on the religion and claim that it is inherent in the religion’s teachings, which is completely false.

We only know of what we hear and read on the news, and only God knows how much of that is the truth and what parts have been fabricated, or omitted. I wouldn’t be as keen on giving this a thought if it weren’t for what’s happening in Somalia, there is a case (unfortunately, like many others in the world) where Muslims are killing innocent Muslims. That is the extreme of contradiction, so all the fuss about infidels and disbelievers doesn’t even apply. Their thinking doesn’t make sense, it boggles my mind to be honest.

I’m no history buff or political analyst or any of the funny titles people give to themselves, lets not forget experts on Islam, Muslims and Middle East that can barely speak Arabic. The point is that if you (a Muslim) were made the head of national security in an imaginary country that has lost victims to attacks by so-called “Radicals”, then how would you deal with them?

What would your strategy be?

Also be sure to check out “Muslim Youth Radicalization Town Hall” its a Webinar taking place on Saturday Feb 20th at 7 pm PST.

Suhaibwebb.com tries to stay at the forefront on the issues that face American Muslims. In recent months, due to sad events that have happened in our homeland and internationally, Muslim organizations have taken a lead in combating what has been termed “the radicalization process” amongst Western Muslims. We have invited leaders from a spectrum of Muslim organizations to talk about this issue; perspectives range from organizations taking the stance that dealing with “Muslim youth radicalization” is part of serving our country and protecting her citizens, to other voices who do not agree with what they have seen as a blanket accusation of an entire community.


Ego Management & Productivity

In A Thought on December 24, 2009 at 10:08 am

I have realized that with my increased use of web communications and social networks I have become obsessed with myself.

Call it what you want, but that’s really all it is.

Google, Google analytics, WordPress views, Digg, Delicious, Technorati, Flickr views, All types of Comments, Tweets, RT’s and replies. All of them are just ways of trying to feel out what your value is to others. Although technically it’s not meant to be about you, but rather your business, ideas or content. It sounds like the classic case of ‘she needs to separate herself from her work’ doesn’t it?  My mood is affected by this, I get happy when there are comments (positive or negative) or more views.

Having your work recognized and appreciated by others is a good thing, however, it shouldn’t be a goal in and of itself. When I was starting university it used to be all about facebook. The real appeal behind it was the ability to get into other people’s business. Which is really not all that interesting to me anymore. This should come as no surprise, why be bothered with other people when I can obsess over myself? Lately I haven’t been giving that much time to facebook, and for good reason; not much is poppin on there.

Knowing what facebook is all about people add fuel to the fire by airing their ‘dirty laundry’ on there. It promotes a culture of sharing, which isn’t necessarily bad. Users focus on sharing the crazy stuff that they had no business doing, let alone telling people about. So trying to get into the whole fb thing really can lead downhill. For example, I have seen people transition through all the phases of taking off their hijab. First its smaller, then wrapped back, then a hat, then its gone. Me and my cousin used to discuss it, so and so ’7atta sewarha 3aryana fe facebook’ put up naked pictures of herself on facebook. That’s not the gritty part, its the fact that their so-called friends encourage them. They comment on how nice they look, how they look amazing without their hijab. This is Muslims telling other Muslims. So to me, the concept of others opinion of you negatively affecting your actions is represented on facebook at its worst.

I often thought of how it isn’t right to talk about people in a bad way behind their back. Its straight out wrong. So what’s the right thing to do then? I took the advice of a friend that used to message people, privately and try to remind them to do the right thing. Don’t know that it has ever made an obvious difference, but I guess we plant the seeds and Allah (swt) has the control on what comes after that.

I need to train myself to make the most of social networking without them driving me crazy. Obsessing hampers my creativity, thinking and worst of all it poses a threat to the integrity of my work. At the Al-Kauthar class last weekend about the Fiqh of Salaah the instructor told the volunteers that they shouldn’t think anything of what they were doing. Because, things we do in front of other people can rarely be sincerely for Allah (swt), and there is always a chance that we were hoping to get credit from people.

That rings so true especially with blogging about Islamic topics. We want to benefit others with reflections we have on life that maybe eye-opening for them too, but our intentions can come under attack when we allow the popularity/ego/arrogance factor to affect us. In all honesty, I am still working on that. I read every article I come across about making the best of social networking. The catch 22 is that when you put so much focus on how you actually use the social networks, you are really just obsessing again.

Not only is it bad for my character but its also a horrible waste of time. I recently downloaded this program called ‘Freedom’ for mac that cuts off your internet connection for a specified amount of time. I haven’t used it yet, but that’s only because I need to ‘Google’ code and other information when I am designing. I did notice that closing TweetDeck and my email in Firefox, (and other email in Safari) has really helped my productivity. So when I go to the hot-corner that shows all windows I am not distracted by e-mail or random browsing.

Its actually bad for us to have so much information on what others think of us, or to give it so much weight. I’ve considered just closing my twitter, fb, blogs and Flickr but I don’t think I can. A lot of work went into them for one, the other thing is that they are excellent tools when used correctly.

It makes me think of how blessed we are not to know what exactly is in our book of deeds or what fate Allah (swt) has written for us. We would obsess over it and be constantly trying to avoid the parts we didn’t like so much. We would mourn the tough times before they came, and probably never get to enjoy the good ones…

What do you think ;)

Ask the Public: One Positive Thing You Know About Islam

In A Thought on December 7, 2009 at 5:53 am

I posted this question on Soul Pancake.com, A project created by Rainn Wilson – Dwight from the office – and some other people, that was meant to become a forum for discussion religious and otherwise taboo thoughts, or faith-related issues.

Here are some of the responses:

Soul Pancake Discussion – What is one positive thing you know about Islam?

Comment from PaxDawson
November 11, 2009 6:06 PM

Although I’m a pacifist, I do acknowledge that the Qur’an establishes a relatively progressive just war theory. There are many more positives I could site, but I don’t think this one has been mentioned.

Comment from cosmic_syrup
November 10, 2009 5:29 PM

They don’t drink alcohol. They seem to be very disciplined and dedicated to their prayer times. They’re not all extremists.

Comment from esalaslimon
October 29, 2009 7:29 AM

they approve the virgin birth of Christ (Surah 19. 19-21), but at the same time deny he is the son of God.

they contradict themselves, making everybody else’s job of doing so a lot easier!

Comment from godan
September 14, 2009 1:50 PM

All religions contain divine revelations from the infinite creator. So they all have positive roots. On the other hand, all religions contain politically motivated rules thought up by finite man. In this respect they all contain dogma that can scare the hell out of people.

Comment from joeyanne
August 5, 2009 12:21 PM

way too much bad press makes people that dont actually know alot believe the media hype. i work with a range of people form all walks of life and all different religions etc. i do not pre-judge, however, media hype, and attitude etc, does not do any favours.

Comment from doubleyoubee723
June 3, 2009 8:44 AM

@doubleyoubee723 I guess that’s two things though but w/e :)

Comment from doubleyoubee723
June 2, 2009 9:08 AM

Muslims do not drink alcohol.
Yes, it is true, the vast majority of muslims are not extremists either.

Comment from curious2know
March 30, 2009 4:00 PM

teaches to respect everyone and their beliefs.

MOST muslims are NOT extremists..theyre just normal..and no…the biggest number of muslims are NOT arabs..and most problems with islam today are actually arab problems…problems which arab say are “in the name of islam”….which is a lie.so i just wanted to point that out.

Comment from Traveler
March 17, 2009 11:46 AM

Islam teaches a person how to act, when to act, and why all in the best manner and character.

Comment from adrienne
March 10, 2009 1:49 PM

peaceful. they’ve always been kind to me.

Comment from 420honey
March 10, 2009 7:29 AM

There don’t seem to be many fat followers of Islam.

Comment from Katherinelove
March 10, 2009 4:46 PM

The art of Devotion

Comment from Gibra
March 9, 2009 1:17 PM

I stumbled upon Arsalan Iftikhar while looking at CNN.com one day. His post: http://www.themuslimguy.com/islamic-pacifism-defined.html inspired me to write about my thoughts on the injustices others place on Muslim people. I believe that individuals are smart, but I think that groups of people can be sheep. If you take things (like the Bible, Koran, or Torah) out of context wars can start. There are religious zealots in every religion, and that shouldn’t define a people as a whole.

Comment from gagenie
March 9, 2009 9:56 AM

They advance the progress of women. This may sound strange but women/girls had NO value in those times.It was a practice to bury girl babies alive. Muhammad changed that. Women started wearing veils
( for their protection) and marriage laws were changed so a man could only have three wives instead of as many as he wanted. Muhammad said the wives must be treated equability and equally. That was ahuge improvement. Today we see the veil as hindering the progress of women but times have changed and most of us were not aware of the history of the veil.

Comment from jakeowens93
March 9, 2009 9:34 AM

their zeal is definitely something to admire.

Comment from Scotland
March 9, 2009 9:01 AM

Everyone is simply trying to live a life worth living. Muslims included.

Anything good (or bad) you can say about yourself, you can also say about any particular Muslim. Anything good (or bad) you can say about Islam, you can also say about any other particular religion.

Think Christianity is different? Think again. Christians have their share of historical and current ‘holy wars’. And there are also terrorist extremists also claim to be Christians, but we usually call them ‘white extremists’.

Comment from cbundy
March 9, 2009 8:54 AM

The women have nice outfits.

Comment from dedbadger
March 9, 2009 8:44 AM

it’s practically the same religion as Christianity?! that may not be a plus, but maybe make people realise that evil is as evil does.

Comment from HonestHolly
March 9, 2009 8:15 AM

My Muslim friends at work are very very kind and always answer my questions when I ask. They are not trying to sell their religion. They seem to accept that the way they are is unchangeable.

VS Pink Lotion – So amazing…

In Tid Bits on November 8, 2009 at 2:47 pm

lotion This stuff is off the hook. Honest to God it makes u so soft.

All the different flavors rock but I like Warm & Cozy and Fresh & Clean best.

The new plaid one Soft & Dreamy is just as lovely.

They are on sale 2/$20 so grab some ASAP.

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Finance Terms You Should Be Familiar With

In Life, Marketing, Tid Bits on November 1, 2009 at 7:13 pm

NYa) Proprietorship: An unincorporated business owned by a single individual.

Partnership: An unincorporated business owned by two or more individuals.

Corporation: A legal entity created by state law with multiple owners, all with limited liability.

b) Limited Partnership: A partnership where there are general and limited partners. The former are subjected to unlimited liability and control where as the latter are only liable for the amount of their investment in the business, and have no control. 

Limited Liability Partnership: Also known as an LLC is where all partners are only liable for their investment in the business.

Professional Corporation: An incorporated business that offers limited liability to its multiple owners (shareholders) that invest in the business with minimal risk.

c) Stockholder wealth maximization: To increase the company’s ability to generate cash flow, which in turn leads to payouts to stockholders.

d) Money Market: The markets for short-term (less than one year to maturity) highly liquid debt securities.

Capital Market: The markets for intermediate or long-term (1- 5 years to

maturity) and corporate stocks.

Primary Market: The markets in which corporations raise new capital.

Secondary Market: The markets in which existing outstanding securities are traded among investors.

e) Private market: Markets where transactions occur directly between two parties.

Public Market: Markets where standardized contracts are traded on organized exchanges, such as a common stock or corporate bonds.

Derivatives: Financial instruments or securities that derive their value from another security.

f) Investment Banker: A facilitator to help transfer capital from savers to businesses by buying stocks or bonds from corporations and selling them to savers in the form of securities.

Financial Service Corporation: Conglomerates that include several financial institutions under one corporation.

Financial Intermediary: A bank or a mutual fund that takes cash from savers in exchange for its own securities and reinvests the cash in businesses securities.

g) Mutual Fund: Corporations that accept money from savers and use the money to invest in different securities, and pooling funds helps reduce risk to investors.

Money market Fund: Interest bearing checking accounts.

h) Physical Location Exchanges: Types of secondary markets where traders physically meet and trade in a specific location. Examples include NYSE and AMEX.

Computer/ Telephone Network: Types of secondary markets where traders make exchanges over computer or telephone networks and do not meet in person. An example of a computer or telephone networks is Nasdaq.

i) Open Outcry Auctions: An auction where traders meet in person and communicate via shouts and signals to trade.

Dealer Market: A market where dealers keep inventory of traded stocks and list the prices that they are willing to buy and sell at on a computerized quotation system.

Electronic Communications Network: An electronic system that matches market orders to buy and sell at the lowest prices. It then executes the transaction and notifies the parties involved.

j) Production Opportunities: The ability to turn capital into benefits. An example is when a student borrows to pay for college; they expect to get a better job and higher income from their investment.

Time Preference for Consumption: The choice of a buyer or business to save or spend their money in the present or to invest it and enjoy greater spending in the future.

k) Foreign Trade Deficit: When the government imports more than it exports or buys more than it sells on the international market, this debt is paid by borrowing, resulting in a deficit.

Ramadan Kareem

In A Thought on August 22, 2009 at 11:14 am

Ramadan

Hustle – The buzzword for this month

In A Thought on March 17, 2009 at 4:54 pm

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You aren’t hustling.

You are cheap as hell and it shows.

I keep coming across requests for design work that are extremely demanding, and detailed, and offering minimal pay.

People think designers are slaves or something. They think they have big ideas and you are the talented dummy that will fuel their idea with you creativity for free.

Don’t settle for projects unless it is on your terms.

No more about that.

SoulPancake

In A Thought on March 9, 2009 at 4:56 pm

Biscuit

I submitted my first question to Soulpancake.com it is interestingly addictive and can consume hours of your time on end without you even noticing. This site is about spilling the beans about all things ‘taboo.’

Check it out yourself.

Go wild with it.

www.soulpancake.com

Using People

In A Thought, Life on February 21, 2009 at 7:45 am

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It seems as though it is human nature to use people for what you need them for. They are worth as much to you, as the benefit you get from keeping them around.

It is something we all do.

We all have the friends that listen when we have to vent, and the ones that we listen to when its their turn. We keep some because they make us feel wanted, needed, and important. Others because they are the ones who we need, and probably they thrive on the significance we give them in return for their attention and time.

Why does it bite when you loose your status with one of the users? Why does it hurt when they take that “petty” “superficial” attention away from you and give you a cold shoulder?

I guess I would have to say its a reflection of our own petty superficiality.

Open and shut case Johnson.

Immigration: Go Home

In Life, Tid Bits on September 8, 2008 at 11:11 am

There is plenty of space in the US for people to come live here. Take a road trip anywhere and you’ll have your fair share of reminding.

You are not leaving your position at God knows where to do the mineal jobs they are willing to get done – efficiently if I might add.

Laslty, you came from somewhere else too. If you believe that they need to go home, then I suggest you get a head start on your packing.

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